How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.

Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why does the UK Labour MP Jess Philips seem to be such a divisive figure?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How strict are your parents?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

A kid threw a stone at my car. I confronted his mom (who was nearby). She said, "You can't prove it was my son." How should I have reacted?

Ask yourself:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Kquorans, can you please write a story?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What are the psychological reasons behind an extreme obsession with another human being?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How was your JEE 2024 result like?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What habits do happy couples have?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Does a narcissist ever get their comeuppance/karma for the vile things they've done? Such as cheating, smear campaign, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How do you take your erotic photos and how do you choose the poses?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Islam is definitely a very anti-LGBTQ religion, so why don't liberals ever stage pro-LGBTQ demonstrations at mosques or at the consulates/embassies of Muslim countries?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Atheists, there is a god up there in heaven and he loves you so much that he sent his son to die the worst death imaginable and then to turn into a zombie all to save you from sin. Why do you reject him?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.